100 Sad Days; Day 35: I Has a Sad

Today somebody cracked an Ostrich egg full of sad over my head.

It hurt like hell. Right on my crown. The sad then slowly seeped down my face, over my eyes and past my mouth. Gluing me together.

It dribbled on to my shoulders and throughout the day made it's messy way down my clothed body.

I feel rotten and my head aches.

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